Finding His Voice: Joe Torre Reflects on His Story This Domestic Violence Awareness Month

October 14, 2026

At Safe At Home, our work is rooted in lived experience and what we can learn from others. Before he became a legendary baseball player, Hall of Fame manager, and broadcaster, our co-founder Joe Torre was a child growing up in a home impacted by domestic violence. This Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we are grateful to Joe for sharing his personal reflections on growing up in a home affected by domestic violence, the power of finding his voice, and why he believes sharing our stories can help others feel seen, supported, and less alone.

A Letter from Joe Torre

Growing up, I didn’t always have the words to describe what was happening in my home. I knew I was afraid. I struggled with self-confidence. Like so many young people who grew up around domestic violence, I carried those feelings with me, even when I was away from home. Baseball gave me a place where I felt safe and supported when things at home were difficult.

For a long time, I kept what happened in my home to myself. I thought I was the only one going through something like that, and I didn’t know how to talk about it. It wasn’t until I attended a seminar as an adult that I began to understand how much what I witnessed growing up had affected me, even years later. When I began speaking publicly about my experience, I was struck by how many people shared similar stories with me. It made me realize that talking about it could help others feel less alone. That’s why my wife, Ali, and I started Safe At Home in 2002.

Our voices can make a difference, sometimes in ways we may never fully realize. I learned that firsthand when I began sharing my story. Speaking openly about domestic violence can help others feel less alone and encourage conversations that aren’t always easy to have. And sometimes, simply listening without judgement or helping someone find support can make a real difference. 

That’s what Safe At Home’s Your Voice campaign is all about. This Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I’m using my voice to remind anyone experiencing domestic violence that they are not alone, violence is not their fault, and help is available. Whether it’s starting a conversation, sharing information, or being there for someone who needs support, I hope you’ll add your voice, too.

Stylized brown cursive signature on a black background reading 'Joe Ness' (signature graphic).

Joe Torre’s story reminds us that sharing our experiences can help others feel less alone and create opportunities for conversation, connection, and change.

This October, we invite you to learn, listen, talk and share. Our Your Voice Campaign Toolkit makes it easy, with information, messages, visuals, and resources you can use and customize to raise awareness and engage your community. To receive your toolkit, simply add your name to our Raise Your Voice Pledge.

Finding His Voice: Joe Torre Reflects on His Story This Domestic Violence Awareness Month

October 14, 2026

At Safe At Home, our work is rooted in lived experience and what we can learn from others. Before he became a legendary baseball player, Hall of Fame manager, and broadcaster, our co-founder Joe Torre was a child growing up in a home impacted by domestic violence. This Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we are grateful to Joe for sharing his personal reflections on growing up in a home affected by domestic violence, the power of finding his voice, and why he believes sharing our stories can help others feel seen, supported, and less alone.

A Letter from Joe Torre

Growing up, I didn’t always have the words to describe what was happening in my home. I knew I was afraid. I struggled with self-confidence. Like so many young people who grew up around domestic violence, I carried those feelings with me, even when I was away from home. Baseball gave me a place where I felt safe and supported when things at home were difficult.

For a long time, I kept what happened in my home to myself. I thought I was the only one going through something like that, and I didn’t know how to talk about it. It wasn’t until I attended a seminar as an adult that I began to understand how much what I witnessed growing up had affected me, even years later. When I began speaking publicly about my experience, I was struck by how many people shared similar stories with me. It made me realize that talking about it could help others feel less alone. That’s why my wife, Ali, and I started Safe At Home in 2002.

Our voices can make a difference, sometimes in ways we may never fully realize. I learned that firsthand when I began sharing my story. Speaking openly about domestic violence can help others feel less alone and encourage conversations that aren’t always easy to have. And sometimes, simply listening without judgement or helping someone find support can make a real difference. 

That’s what Safe At Home’s Your Voice campaign is all about. This Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I’m using my voice to remind anyone experiencing domestic violence that they are not alone, violence is not their fault, and help is available. Whether it’s starting a conversation, sharing information, or being there for someone who needs support, I hope you’ll add your voice, too. 

Banner for Domestic Violence Awareness Month with the message 'Your Voice can help end the cycle' and purple/coral design accents.

Joe Torre’s story reminds us that sharing our experiences can help others feel less alone and create opportunities for conversation, connection, and change.

This October, we invite you to learn, listen, talk and share. Our Your Voice Campaign Toolkit makes it easy, with information, messages, visuals, and resources you can use and customize to raise awareness and engage your community. To receive your toolkit, simply add your name to our Raise Your Voice Pledge.

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Brianna Arnolde